Each mother and father may find it good to let each daughter and son expect:
~ to be fearless in facing things like snakes, mice, and ghosts.
~ each disobedience to lead to an appropriate punishment. The punishment ought to fit each parent and child. For one such pair a frown might suffice.
~ remorse of conscience for ill-treatment of an animal.
~ to avoid making parents or teachers sad or angry.
~ Joy in being content with what one has.
~ to feel sorry at the loss of the good will of another.
~ to patiently endure pain and hunger, but nor onto death.
~ to strive from early on to earn one's bread.
It is okay for a son or daughter to consider the eight expectations above.
Short and, I hope, sweet enough.
rcs